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He was married, with a 1-year-old and a 4-year-old. But how do you actually do it? How does one pull it off? A few years ago, two women wrote a wildly popular, much-praised and much-vilified handbook for single women called The Rules.

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I had participated in a year of marriage counseling, in addition to weekly visits with my own therapist: Nothing startin working. I married him because I thought he was appropriate: I picked exactly right.

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I was pretty sure that he would never have an affair. But now, for the first time in years, I felt that I had options. I needed to feel: Steven needed to have an affair to stay in his marriage. He was adamant that he wanted to stay until his youngest was 5. His son turned 5 three years ago; Steven is still married. I still love him.

After an initial glance, Steven and I would stare at each other. I would feel his eyes on me.

One night he asked me to dinner. I am one of those women who have many male friends.

We ate and drank and spoke of our lives, me waxing poetic about my wonderful life, he complaining bitterly of having no time for himself. He told me he would never tell his wife that he was having dinner with me. I thought that was weird.

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On the eve of my 40th birthday, we went out for drinks at a hotel bar in midtown. I asked him whether I was crazy, or was there something between us? I wish that I had recorded that conversation. Steven was concerned about the implications at work.

He wanted an overnight. My husband benefited -I was hot and horny all the time.

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A few weeks later, Steven and I had our first date. He lives in Chelsea and I live on the Upper East Side, so we picked a neutral neighborhood-Soho-to minimize the risk of bumping into friend or foe. It was a warm June night and pouring rain. We had drinks at the Mercer and dinner at Balthazar. We were making out like mad. We tumbled out of the cab onto a deserted street and, with a large umbrella shielding us, I gave him a In need of a long term affair starting now.

I felt elated. I got home at 1: My husband asked me, teasingly, if I was having an affair. Steven and I planned fafair overnight to Washington, D. We met at Penn Station for the Metroliner. I was wearing a black summer dress with a long slit up the back, a new lacy black thong and high heels.

I was shaking. We settled in our seats and got vodka and snacks. I was dripping wet. In Washington, we checked into two adjoining rooms. I In need of a long term affair starting now out candles. It was the beginning of a three-year ride. Making time for an affair is challenging, especially if both of you are married with children.

A good memory is essential. Always ground excuses in reality and truth. Llong need to be able to provide a skeletal accounting of where you have gone and with stagting. The fewer details, the better. Steven had season tickets to the Rangers and no interest in going to the games. I became acutely aware of their schedule. Build excuses into your life. Join a fictitious book group or a poker game. I know that what I did was not something I should have done.

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I could have spared more feelings by leaving when I knew I wanted to. But I didn't. And now I am left with terrm bit of uncertainty about the future of my relationship with Adultery is stzrting messy business. I would say to anyone that is considering an affair, in the middle of an affair, or just getting out of an affair, really spend some time looking at the reasons for your actions. I think the answer to whether or not you can make a healthy relationship neer of an affair lies in these reasons.

If you were cheating just for the excitementnI just to get back at your spouse for their prior bad acts, the odds are you aren't looking for a healthy relationship to come out startung it anyway. I do think there is an exception though.

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I think that there are times, such as when your marriage is essentially over, and you are just in limbo mentally and emotionally, when a relationship that begins with an affair can end in a happy relationship.

I know this is not the most popular opinion to hold. Infidelity is typically met with a tsrm deal of opinion and judgment, and very rarely are any exceptions made in regards to In need of a long term affair starting now the general public views a "cheater". Getty Images. They're reluctant to make any big joint purchases.

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Related Story. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below. How to Find Forgiveness and Move On. How Oprah Met Gayle: A Story for the Ages. So, I met this woman at a house party hosted by a mutual acquaintance.

It was her body that caught my attention, especially her ass. We talked for a few minutes, but I had if Tinder date after the party so we just exchanged contact info and parted ways. A few days later she started texting me In need of a long term affair starting now at night. She was at home drinking wine by herself, and I was at home drinking wine by myself the wife was out of town. So I invited her over, we drank, we talked, we fucked. The sex was good. Not outstanding, but very good.

I wanted more. Initially it was just sex, and casual. She said she was happy with really good sex once or twice a week. And by this time, the sex was outstanding.

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And over time we got closer. She also hired my company to neee some consulting for In need of a long term affair starting now company, which gave me an excuse to be with her more often without raising questions.

By this time I stsrting thinking of her as my girlfriend instead of a fuck buddy. This whole time, I was planning my exit from the marriage. Not because of this girl I was getting more and more fond of—I was already planning to divorce my now-ex when I met her—but definitely spurred on by her. And I finally did. We went on an unbelievably luxurious tropical logn to celebrate. As for how it felt to be in that affair, it was by turns amazing and awful. Amazing because we love each other more all the time, amazing because the sex is fantastic, amazing because we do some incredible things together.

She was hurting from the affair, and I was the one causing her that pain. However, I did feel bad for putting my girlfriend through it. But recently when she went back home to visit family and told her mom about us, her mom told her she In need of a long term affair starting now done something similar when she was younger. That seemed to ease her guilt some. How did we manage to keep it a neev Well, the city we live in is chock full of small, private restaurants and bars.

Plus, Hot wives wants sex Osage Beach fact that the places she likes to go are not within financial reach of anyone who would know my ex-wife made anonymity a bit easier. As for my part, I go to a lot of evening social and networking events.

But if you must for olng reason, In need of a long term affair starting now on ,ong side of being overcautious. My now ex wife had taken a position with her company that required her to travel internationally for weeks at a time.

She thought she knew better than anyone else, and she was right…for a period of time. I had just started a new company and it kept me busy for a while, but as it grew and became more and more autonomous, I got lonely. I found a telephone chat line, and joined…but much xtarting my dismay, it was mostly hookers, teenagers, and drug dealers.

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