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They have sex about three times a week, which might strike many as enviable, considering that John and Jane—who are in their 40s—have been together for nearly two decades. Provice on numbers alone, one might wonder why they need couples counseling at all.

Or frequency.

Or different. Jane has bought lingerie and booked hotel stays.

She has suggested more radical-seeming potential fixes, too, like opening up the marriage. But her sexual struggles in a long-term relationship, orgasms and frequency of sex notwithstanding, make her something else again: And that disparity tends not to even out over time.

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Those in the same relationship over the study period reported less desire, arousal, and satisfaction.

But when the researchers controlled for that variable, it turned out to have no impact. Multiple lovers, without jealousy. Many women want monogamy.

The psychiatrist and sexual-health practitioner Elisabeth Gordon told me that in her clinical experience, as in the data, women disproportionately present with lower sexual desire than their male partners of a year or more, and in the longer term as well.

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But refracted through data and anecdotal evidence, Jane seems less exceptional and more an Everywoman, and female sexual boredom could almost pass for the new beige. Why are young people having so little sex?

Women cannot be pigeonholed; the glory of human sexuality is its variation and flexibility. So when we speak of desire in the future, we should acknowledge that the fairer sex thirsts for the frisson of an encounter with someone or something fro as much as, if not more, than men do—and that they could benefit from a gray-zone hall pass, too.

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